Early-stage dynamic with clear D/s framing established by you. She's compliant in language ('daddy', 'baby') but passive in engagement - you set the frame, she acknowledges but doesn't initiate or elaborate. The 'friend with benefits' label suggests she may not be tracking the depth of the D/s structure you're offering.

Direct calibration

Noted. You acknowledge but don’t elaborate. That’s fine if you’re just exploring, but this isn’t a spectator dynamic. If you’re in, show up. If not, say it.