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April 24, 2026
Heyy!
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Hey Jay
18:46
How are you today
18:46
I’m doing ok but about to take a nap 😂
19:42
Nap taken.
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23:49
April 26, 2026
That’s a really cool quote
12:55
How are you?
13:50
Im good wbu
17:04
I’m doing well. I’m headed to my daughter’s birthday party.
17:22
Oh well thatll be fun
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Send me a picture.
17:23
This is from last night
17:28
Mmm good girl. Very cute. Are you going out?
17:29
I did yeah i went to a bar
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It got me hard so I guess it worked
17:30
Hmm did it? Thats good to know
17:32
How’s the hunt for men?
17:33
😂im hardly on a hunt at this point most men are awful and it’s discouraging
17:35
So since we are talking is the hunt over?
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😂id say moreso paused while interviewing potential candidates
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Oh? How many potential candidates do you have?
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😂currently 2
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Oh my
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That must be where you have been.
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Wym where Ive been?
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Just teasing you
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😂😂😂😂oh I was worried for a minute there
17:50
Oh yeah what were you worried about?
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I don’t like upsetting people
17:58
Such a good sunny. Sounds like you need a Dom
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Ive been trying to find one lol
18:02
I bet you wear yourself out trying to please others and they don’t fill your cup in return.
18:02
That’s pretty much the story of my life 🤷♀️ i think thats why im always so mentally exhausted
18:04
I’m sorry. It’s pretty much the standard for subs.
18:14
That’s why I think the right Dom is so good subs. They get to pour into someone
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Im trying to stop being such a people pleaser but its been easier said than done
18:17
Just please me. It will be much easier.
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I will certainly try my best to do so
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How are you?
21:02
Just about to leave the party.
21:02
Im good! Not ready for the weekend to be over. How are you?
21:05
Good but looking forward to
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Looking forward to what?
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Relaxing today and then being productive tomorrow.
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Mondays are the worstttt day of the week for me
21:40
Why is that?
21:41
Its usually the busiest day of the week and everything is a mess
21:42
What do you do?
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I do customer service for a trucking company
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I’m an application developer. I worked for a large multinational law firm, but was recently let go.
21:55
Ohh that sounds like a very stressful job
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The job isn’t but the people and politics can certainly make it that way. I was good there for like seven years. Then a bunch of good people left and I lost a sense of agency so I gave up.
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Well im sure better opportunities will come along
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I am married. She’s an attorney. I’m kind of like the COO for her law firm. But I don’t get paid. For a few months I will probably do some desperately needed work on her firms software systems. Without pay. 😆
My wife and I are currently separated. It was my decision to help our nervous systems reset. I am living with a sub. I have 1 locally and 2 virtualy
My wife and I are currently separated. It was my decision to help our nervous systems reset. I am living with a sub. I have 1 locally and 2 virtualy
22:22
Oh okay that’s really cool
22:23
Does that bother you?
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No not at all lol
22:32
So people it does. Some people are looking for their husband and future baby Daddy.
22:33
Not at all lol i have a partner
22:35
What is your relationship or dynamic like with them?
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Its open we both see other people in some capacity
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So have you had a Dom before?
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I have briefly yeah
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Are you looking for one?
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Im looking for a dom yeah
23:36
I guess your partner isn’t into that? Why are you looking for one. What do you want out of 1
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No hes not. I think the consistency and routine of it would be beneficial for me
23:41
Where are you located?
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In ky
23:43
I’m guessing you are open to remote?
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I am
23:45
April 27, 2026
What are you offering in return?
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What do you want?
00:14
Mmm this is like blood in the water for me.
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But doesn’t answer the question.
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Im not exactly sure how to answer the question i guess
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If they’re giving you consistency and routine, what do you envision offering them in return? What benefit will they get from the dynamic?
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Hmmm i guess obviously submission, companionship, total control
09:55
April 28, 2026
How are you today?
00:05
April 29, 2026
I’m good wbu
12:39
Good, just waking up. How's the other candidate doing?
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He’s doing pretty good very sweet
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Is he a Dom as well?
13:39
He is!
13:52
April 30, 2026
I don’t think we are a good fit for each other. It was nice talking to you though.
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