Good girl. I’m here now baby.

Tell me about your situation at home.

Married?

Kids

I have two daughters ages 17, and 13. With my first wife. I’m currently married #2. The marriage has been open on my side for about 18 months. We’ve been going to individual therapy and couples therapy but at the beginning of this year, I decided we should do a trial separation. And recently, I decided we should get a divorce. My wife still wants to be together but I think it’s best if we divorce. I work in technology I’m a software developer. I also work as her chief operations officer she’s an attorney with her own practice.

I currently live in Katy and I have a submissive living with me. I have another sub I like in British Columbia, Canada and she’s working on way to move here but it’s going to take a while.

Im out running errands and will reply shortly.

I’m guessing your husband doesn’t know?

You gave me yours. Good girl. Now you get a little of mine.

I’m leaving a marriage (my second) that couldn’t give me what I require. No drama, no bitterness. It just wasn’t what I need. We were open on my side for a year and a half. I called for a trial separation, and recently decided divorce is best.

I’ve got two daughters, 17 and 13, from my first marriage. They live with their mom. They come first, always. That’s not negotiable.

At this point in my life I don’t do monogamy, and I don’t hide it. I have a sub who lives with me. You wouldn’t be replacing her, and you wouldn’t be my only.

So know what this is before you want it. I don’t do casual. I’m looking for something real, if you can earn it.

I’m out running errands, but I’ll reply when I have time.

I assume your husband isn’t aware of your decision to explore with others? I’m ok with it either way.

Do you have any experience in a BDSM D/s dynamics?

Never cum or squirt ever?

Sorry you don’t have to be embarrassed or shy the reason my marriage was open is because we didn’t have sex for the first seven years of our marriage

I took us to therapy and worked with her for several years. We did have improvement, but honestly, we waited too long and the damage was done. I think it was just too little too late.

Nothing with me has to be serious. Having said that I don’t really do casual or one night stands. I don’t want to be on a roster of FWBs.

Submission is my kink.

Fifty Shades and dark romance are how a lot of women first find this in themselves. No shame in it. It woke something real up in you.

But let me tell you what it actually is, because the books get the most important part wrong.

It starts with respect. The women who crave this most are the ones carrying the most. High-powered, responsible, deciding all day for everyone around them. By the time they reach me their mind is worn out. What I give them is a place to set all of it down. You don’t decide, you don’t manage, you don’t perform. You hand me control and you finally get to stop thinking.

In return your body becomes mine. Mine to use, on my terms. You take what I give you, when I choose to give it.

Here is what Fifty Shades gets dangerously wrong. That’s a controlling man steamrolling a woman’s limits. Real submission runs on consent. You tell me your limits and I honor them. You always have a word that stops everything cold. The control is a gift you give me, and a gift can be taken back. That is exactly what makes it safe enough to let go completely.

The more you trust me, the further I can take you. But it is built, never demanded.

Where do you live? What does your availability look like?

Everyone is. Don’t worry I will open you up. Training is one of my favorite things to do.

What area of town are you in. Would you come to my place? Do you need your husbands approval?

Of course. Would you be ok if my sub watches or joins in?

Conditioning rope for bondage. If that is interesting to you.

Would you like to plan a meetup?

I saw you deleted your account on pure. Is everything ok?

I understand.

I’ll be straight with you about the field of men out here, because it’s rough. A lot of them use kink as an excuse to do whatever they want with no regard for the woman’s feelings. That is one of the worst things a Dom can be. The whole thing only works if it is built on care. If one person is going to let go completely, the one holding the control has to be able to take care of her, because in that moment she cannot take care of herself. A man who doesn’t care about a woman or her feelings has no business calling himself a Dom.

And whatever happens from here, you are not in it alone. If you ever need someone to talk to, or just don’t want to carry it by yourself, I’m here. No agenda, no pressure.