Outstanding asks, commitments and follow-ups
for this peer. "Mark resolved" dismisses an item permanently.
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Classification
Only personal · romantic gets plans,
drafts, voice retrieval, push & cadence pressure.
Push notifications
On = a new inbound here fires a lock-screen push
with a pre-baked draft, 24/7 (silence on the phone via Apple Focus).
Off = silent. There is no auto-promotion — only peers you toggle on
here ever push.
Lifecycle
Stage history
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No stage transitions recorded yet.
Last 3 arc_state transitions, newest first. Logged automatically when a Hermes refresh changes the stage.
Canonical person
⛓ Linked to Jazlyn · cohort: unlinked:tinder:68f48454abea26b246785eeb6a7d9db05f936a6018d57bb1, sms:+19368990048, unlinked:tinder:6a335b1ff019ae26185a43b16a7d9db05f936a6018d57bb1
Auto-on for family & historical. When on, this
peer is never pulled into voice retrieval or used as a sample.
Kill switch
active · mute (silent) · pause (no drafts) ·
presence (pause + no refresh) · off.
Cadence threshold override
Blank = per-channel default. This value is read
by the inbox red-flag, so it changes real behaviour.
Public profile signals
No profile signals captured yet. Pull her bio, declared kinks/limits and "looking for" from the platform so the brain can anchor on what she says she wants.
Weekly check-in opt-in
30 min, once a week. A space to bring feelings
without consequences. Notes build up so you can see patterns.
No weekly check-in set. Pick a day and time below — you’ll get a push 5 min before, every week.
History
No check-ins yet.
Current plan (conf 0.8)
Where it stands: Stalled. She stopped engaging after his heavy-handed ask for Telegram, though she replied warmly earlier.
What's blocking: Her resistance to switching platforms.
Next move: Use the 'soft repair without breaking frame' move: 'I hear you. I framed that badly. Won't happen again. Did you hear back about the job?'
Hard constraints: Do not push for Telegram again. Do not frame it as a test or requirement.
Expected register for next reply: soft-protective