Outstanding asks, commitments and follow-ups
for this peer. "Mark resolved" dismisses an item permanently.
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Classification
Only personal · romantic gets plans,
drafts, voice retrieval, push & cadence pressure.
Push notifications
On = a new inbound here fires a lock-screen push
with a pre-baked draft, 24/7 (silence on the phone via Apple Focus).
Off = silent. There is no auto-promotion — only peers you toggle on
here ever push.
Lifecycle
Stage history
progressing
— → progressing · Tue Sep 15, 2026 · 08:38
Acknowledge the bid, hold the frame
Last 3 arc_state transitions, newest first. Logged automatically when a Hermes refresh changes the stage.
Canonical person
⛓ Linked to Faith · cohort: unlinked:tinder:6429682b3e90c8010008876d6a7d9db05f936a6018d57bb1, screenshot:tinder:5384fb73c2f34780
Auto-on for family & historical. When on, this
peer is never pulled into voice retrieval or used as a sample.
Kill switch
active · mute (silent) · pause (no drafts) ·
presence (pause + no refresh) · off.
Cadence threshold override
Blank = per-channel default. This value is read
by the inbox red-flag, so it changes real behaviour.
Public profile signals
No profile signals captured yet. Pull her bio, declared kinks/limits and "looking for" from the platform so the brain can anchor on what she says she wants.
Weekly check-in opt-in
30 min, once a week. A space to bring feelings
without consequences. Notes build up so you can see patterns.
No weekly check-in set. Pick a day and time below — you’ll get a push 5 min before, every week.
History
No check-ins yet.
Current plan (conf 0.8)
Where it stands: She's engaged, testing boundaries, and signaling interest in power exchange. She's also holding her position — trust must be earned, and she's testing your consistency and patience.
What's blocking: She's testing your consistency and patience, and you haven't yet claimed the moment to set the tone.
Next move: Claim the moment: 'Good. Now do this for me before you sleep: Text me one thing you did today that made you proud. No negotiation.' Moving her toward calibrated-commands.
Hard constraints: Do not apologize for your authority. Do not break frame to chase her.
Expected register for next reply: dom-command