30 min, once a week. A space to bring feelings
without consequences. Notes build up so you can see patterns.
No weekly check-in set. Pick a day and time below — you’ll get a push 5 min before, every week.
History
No check-ins yet.
Open loops
Outstanding asks, commitments and follow-ups
for this peer. "Mark resolved" dismisses an item permanently.
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Classification
Only personal · romantic gets plans,
drafts, voice retrieval, push & cadence pressure.
Push notifications
On = a new inbound here fires a lock-screen push
with a pre-baked draft, 24/7 (silence on the phone via Apple Focus).
Off = silent. There is no auto-promotion — only peers you toggle on
here ever push.
Lifecycle
Stage history
stuck
progressing → stuck · Sat Jul 11, 2026 · 08:30
Reinforce boundary, withdraw warmth
testing-the-frame → progressing · Tue May 12, 2026 · 13:57
Reinforce the Container
Last 3 arc_state transitions, newest first. Logged automatically when a Hermes refresh changes the stage.
Canonical person
⛓ Linked to Ava Bella · cohort: unlinked:onlyfans:305030760
Auto-on for family & historical. When on, this
peer is never pulled into voice retrieval or used as a sample.
Kill switch
active · mute (silent) · pause (no drafts) ·
presence (pause + no refresh) · off.
Cadence threshold override
Blank = per-channel default. This value is read
by the inbox red-flag, so it changes real behaviour.
Public profile signals
Her own self-description on the platform. Fed to the big brain BEFORE conversation history as "what she says she wants". Re-captured every 7 days.
onlyfanscaptured 2026-05-21 13:17 · stale
shown as Ava Bella
Current plan (conf 0.9)
Where it stands: Stalled. She maintained protocol with 'Good morning, Sir' but disengaged after your tip without context.
What's blocking: Your demand for unpaid, off-platform ownership conflicts with her requirement for paid structure.
Next move: Send a $50 tip with the message: 'Ava, I want to own you. Let’s start small. Tonight, when you’re ready to sleep, take one slow breath in and out, then text me “I’m yours.” No other words. Moving her toward declared-submission.'
Hard constraints: Do not mention off-platform access or paid structure again. Do not apologize for past demands. Do not break frame to discuss the impasse.
Expected register for next reply: dom-command