Flounzy::8699968344 ·
Open loops
Outstanding asks, commitments and follow-ups
for this peer. "Mark resolved" dismisses an item permanently.
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Classification
Only personal · romantic gets plans,
drafts, voice retrieval, push & cadence pressure.
Push notifications
On = a new inbound here fires a lock-screen push
with a pre-baked draft, 24/7 (silence on the phone via Apple Focus).
Off = silent. There is no auto-promotion — only peers you toggle on
here ever push.
Lifecycle
Stage history
progressing
No stage transitions recorded yet.
Last 3 arc_state transitions, newest first. Logged automatically when a Hermes refresh changes the stage.
Canonical person
⛓ Linked to Flounzy The Banana · cohort: Flounzy::8699968344, Flounzy
Open unified historyMerge / split (admin)
Voice corpus
Auto-on for family & historical. When on, this
peer is never pulled into voice retrieval or used as a sample.
Kill switch
active · mute (silent) · pause (no drafts) ·
presence (pause + no refresh) · off.
Cadence threshold override
Blank = per-channel default. This value is read
by the inbox red-flag, so it changes real behaviour.
Public profile signals
Her own self-description on the platform. Fed to the big brain BEFORE conversation history as "what she says she wants". Re-captured every 7 days.
telegramcaptured 2026-05-21 13:09
@Flounzy · shown as Flounzy The Banana · 1 chats in common with Don
Weekly check-in opt-in
30 min, once a week. A space to bring feelings
without consequences. Notes build up so you can see patterns.
No weekly check-in set. Pick a day and time below — you’ll get a push 5 min before, every week.
History
No check-ins yet.
Current plan (conf 0.5)
Where it stands: Cooling. She replied warmly 4 days ago then went silent after he sent a casual check-in.
What's blocking: Withdrew after light pressure
Next move: Send a single, very low expectation 'open invitation' message: 'If you have any interest in talking, I'd love to hear from you.' Make it clear she does not need to share anything about herself and that this is just a casual reach-out. Then fully shift to the 'soft protective' register for several days: non-sexual, non-authoritative, warm, encouraging, without pressing. Keep her safe to talk if she wants.
refreshed 2026-05-27T02:20:09+00:00
Places mentioned
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Places mentioned in chat with seen_count ≥ 2 or mentioned in the last 30 days.