Casual, but you picked slowmance. So you still want the slow burn, strings or not. That I can do.

Slow burn suits me. I’m patient, and I’m particular. Start with your name.

Tina. I’m Don. Nice to meet you too. Tell me something about you that isn’t on your profile.

Lead singer. So you like being watched. Why “used to be” TV and computer programming. I’m usually building something.

You seem like the most innocent and genuine person I’ve found on here 😂

I’m looking for the trouble underneath.

I bet I wouldn’t be surprised.

So tell me the situation with hubby. What are you personally looking for?

You brought him into this, you’ve been in it since 18, and now he’s the one calling the shots. No wonder it’s causing friction. So tell me what prioritizing your needs actually looks like. The plain version, not the one you soften for him.

A Dom and the freedom to play. Most people can only hold one of those, which is probably why you liked it and why it’s been hard to replace. That’s how I run my dynamics. They’re mine, and inside that they’ve got real room. They play with each other, with other people, and plenty of the time we’re all together. Nobody asks permission for every small thing because they already know where they stand with me. Do you miss it?

I prefer to eventually move conversations with people I’m interested into the Telegram app. It has better privacy, security, phone, calls, video calls, fund stickers, etc.. I like what I’ve seen in you so far. If you don’t have the app. Get it. Message me @DominusWrecks I’ll reply to your message there.

Like honestly, you’re his you’re infatuated with him you love him. You guys are going to find a way to be with each other and I feel like I would just be waiting until y’all decide to do that. I was actually telling Kaylea how much you reminded me of this other sub that I had that essentially did the same thing after two years, she went with a married man that then dumped her.

I don’t know what that means

That’s just the overthinking part of you preparing for the worst. That’s not what will happen

You are telling yourself it will fail because you’re scared to believe it’ll work out and then be hurt

But if you guys stay into eachother it will happen eventually.

Baby, I see these kinds of relationships and dynamics and situations play out every day with every sub

Moving towards what you want.

Sleep well.

Still not sure what to say.

It sounds like best case scenario I’m second choice or the logical choice like your hubby. But more likely I will invest and pour into you while you continue to pour time and energy into him. I own my subs mind body and soul. I’m not just a distraction or entertainment.

Can’t say I wanted to see you send that message either.

So is that it?

Then don’t be one.

I can’t want it more than you.

Distracted? 🤷🏻‍♂️

Goodnight.

I’m sorry

Meh 🤷🏻‍♂️

shut down all my dating apps it’s a little invalidating, but I’ll be alright.

We’ve all got our triggers. My issue is I put more effort into people than they deserve. I think I might’ve told you I have a save a hoe problem where I just wanna help women. But that puts me in a place where I wanna pour time energy and resources into them because I know what’s good for them. But they don’t recognize the value in it themselves. It’s similar to a lifeguard at a beach or somewhere else. The drowning person trying to take the lifeguard down with them instead of just allowing themselves to be safe

which part and why?

I was referring more to women like the one girl I told you about. Ive know her for two years.

They’re not the same as you. One was elementary school teacher in San Antonio and last I heard her man and her were considering her being a prostitute.

I’m still in contact with most of the ones that are still stable. There are a few that are just completely toxic and we can’t communicate properly and for that reason I don’t talk to them anymore.

Every sub? No a lot of people don’t make it that far.

It’s ok. Shit happens. I’m consistently getting better at recognizing it early and pulling my parachute before I get too close.

Five kids. ADHD. Approximately 37 unfinished projects and one nervous system operating on caffeine, audacity, and pure fucking spite. By day, I work from home doing the jobs of approximately six people while quietly documenting everyone else’s incompetence. By night, I’m planning my escape, designing a retro dirty-soda trailer, researching some completely unrelated historical mystery, and deciding whether tonight is finally the night I get my entire life together. Mother of an autistic tiny genius who loves capybaras, a five-year-old who could probably overthrow a small government, and three additional humans I somehow managed to keep alive despite frequently forgetting why I walked into a room. Former people pleaser. Current boundary enthusiast. I’ve survived shitty relationships, workplace bullshit, questionable life choices, approximately 700 existential crises, and enough character development to qualify for multiple seasons of prestige television. My hobbies include psychology, astrology, overthinking, rescuing animals, buying cardigans, planning businesses before the previous idea has fully left the building, investigating things nobody asked me to investigate, and occasionally deciding at 11:47 PM that THIS IS IT. TOMORROW I BECOME A NEW WOMAN. I don’t do small talk. Tell me about your childhood trauma, your attachment style, whether you believe consciousness survives death, or get out of my kitchen. Currently entering my “I have absolutely no idea what I’m doin

All three women I just told you about don’t talk to me anymore. They essentially ghosted me. I think mostly out of guilt and being overwhelmed and not being able to confront the discomfort of telling me they were leaving.

🤷🏻‍♂️ she has five kids

I believe she also lost one ovary and thought her chances were much lower

Well, to be fair when I told you, I didn’t think it would work. You deleted all of our messages and went away.

I think if you imagine the way we interacted and how talking to me might be hurtful and you said that you were wasting my time, etc. etc. etc. you’re being very hard on yourself and you just felt like a disappointment and then pictures us doing that for two years. Eventually, I would just be a reminder of things you didn’t want to be reminded of. Decisions you wish you made differently.

You and I?

“We kinda sorta ended things after stating it wasn’t going to work though.”

I am acutely aware of a submissive ability to crush themselves under their own psychological pressure. How their whole life can be spiraling out of control and they give every last drop to making sure other people are happy. How they set themselves to standards way higher than anyone else would expect them to.

Good morning

How are you doing?

Off today?

I hate those

Do you have to go in?

Yuck.

painted word recently, where they sent me home with a machine to monitor me. I was so thankful.

Ever done one before?

Bro that sounds like a money grab

Then you just set an auto pap to the maximum setting

Like it doesn’t matter how bad it is the machine only can do so much. It’s not like they’re gonna change the plan based on how bad it is.

I’ve had both the auto pap is just a little bit nicer as when you exhale it recognizes and turns the pressure down

https://share.google/aimode/0DiUWChZ91qZHzyM4

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I guess I haven’t had a BiPAP. The auto pap does the same thing it just senses it on its own.

🤷🏻‍♂️ it doesn’t really matter it’s scheduled and going is still the fastest way to get what you need

Oh well what do I know I’m not a doctor

Good thing you didn’t listen to me. 😆

What are you up to?

Thinking about you.

I like that shirt too. But in needs to be a cut up tee

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Ty17fv

About if there is a way to make things with you possible.

How are things with him? Is he Dominant?

Do you sext, send him nudes, videos etc

You’ve met him?

I figured he is the one you hung out with.

Is he keeping the extent of your interactions from his wife?

Are you wanting to be a third with them?

Or are you both or just you want to separate from your spouses to be together?

Why do you think it will never happen? Why say it’s just a fantasy? It sounds like the only roadblock would be divorcing your husband?

Has he ever expressed being open to the possibility of leaving her?

Wyd?

I’m working on a potential structure for you. You have consumed my day so far.

Yes. 😆

It’s been good and bad.

Are you proud of the good?

Don’t be a pessimist. 😘

Are you willing to stretch for me?

You have to want this more than me. At least as bad. Do you want this? Do you need it?

I'm putting together what I want this to look like and I'll lay it all out for you shortly. Before I do, one more question about him. How much of what you two do is sexual? Roughly. I don't want detail, I want to know how big a piece it is. 16 flirty nudes videos masturbating to the thought of him.

Well, all that does is tell me you have good taste

I want to put this in plain terms instead of circling it. What I'm offering is a real dynamic. Structured, and it starts now rather than whenever things get easier. I'm not asking you to leave anything or choose anyone. John stays where he is. I'm not going to keep picking at it, and I'm not asking you to give up what the two of you already have. What I want from you. • You don't give him details about me. If he asks, it's "we're just talking." Nothing more. No name, no description, nothing about what we do. If he pushes past that, you tell me. • Anything that changes with him, you tell me the same day, before I ask. I'd rather hear it from you than find it. • Nothing physical goes further than it already has. No sex, no meeting him alone, no hotel, no house. • No new men. He's the exception, not the precedent. Anyone new, any new app, you come to me first and you get my answer before anything starts. • You don't come without my permission. Any time, anywhere, alone or not. Your husband is the exception. That's your marriage and I'm not putting rules on it. • Anything you make for me is mine. Photos, video, anything you send me. It doesn't go to him or anyone else. What you get from me. • I stop digging at you. I'll still ask a check in question here and there, but I'm done excavating you for things you should have told me. • I never ask you to choose between us again. That one's done. Is that acceptable? Go through it and tell me what you can hold and what you ca

Are you still on the apps, looking on your own? And rather than me writing a rule for every situation, you bring them to me. If there are scenarios you're unsure about, raise them now. I'd rather work through them today than have a fight about them in a month. One thing so we're clear. I care about the intent, not the wording. If something fits what I'm getting at, it counts, whether or not I spelled it out.

I thought you both stopped, and were closing your accounts.

Is “we” you?

Let me cut through this. We're both adults, and I don't want to spend another hour writing clauses while you answer the letter of each one. I'd rather just tell you what I need. I need to know what's actually going on and what you want out of this. Not the version that's technically accurate. The real one. Everything I'm building sits on that. If the foundation is you telling me what's true without me having to find the exact right question, this works. If it isn't, nothing I write will fix it. So here's where I stand. If something comes out later that you should have told me, and your answer is that you didn't think it mattered, I'm done. Not a fight, not a renegotiation. I'll go. Because at that point I can't trust anything else you've told me. I'd rather hear something hard right now than find it in a month.

I feel like you may have misunderstood my question. I’m not asking for all of you. I’m asking what the situation is.

You said you were shutting it down and deleting the apps and then you didn’t tell me, but you and him agreed to keep using them. You said it’s for the marriage, but you’re going to be on them individually talking to men. which is the same way you met me and the same way you talk to John. How can I give you reasonable boundaries and expectations? If you don’t give me the complete picture of what’s going on? If you want to keep fucking other men and bringing them in then say that.

It also concerns me that instead of answering my question which you most likely misunderstood you just decided on your own that this isn’t going to work and to end things with me without a discussion.

That doesn’t make sense. I’m literally creating it based on your comfort level. I told you I make exceptions for subs to not be exclusive and fuck others . But I need you to tell me what you want so that I can give you boundaries and rules that you’re actually able to stick to not tell me what I wanna hear.

Again you are making that decision for me. That is my choice and my decision

If you say I’m not comfortable giving up fucking other men and women in my marriage and I want to be able to fuck John and sext randoms then say that and I’ll work with it. I spent the last 24+ hours trying to develop a structure that works within your comfort zone so you can stick to it and meet it without feeling like your rights are being infringed upon or you’re having to do without but instead of giving me the full picture you’re just carefully wording things and withholding stuff

Again, exactly what I expected. I’m putting time and effort into you and you’re pushing me away so that you can keep your husband and John and any randoms. You decide to sleep with. Which I would have let you keep anyway if you could be honest about your motives. You are pushing away someone who actually gives a fuck about you and cares for you and trying to help you in exchange for having the option to be with people that don’t care about you and have consistently demonstrated that you aren’t a priority to them. Take care.

I want to say this once, properly, and then it's yours to decide. I wasn't asking for all of you. I didn't ask that of you and I wouldn't. What I was trying to do was build something that fit inside your actual life, and that's the only reason I kept asking what the real situation was. Not to hold it against you. So I didn't hand you rules you had no chance of keeping. That's all the questions were. But you've told me where you're at, and I'm not going to try to talk you out of it. If what you need is for this not to happen, that's the answer, and I'll take it without making it hard on you. Take care of yourself either way.

You are pushing away someone that has demonstrated care and a desire to help make your life better. Someone who has done nothing but communicate honestly and openly and put all of their free time into you. So that you can hold on to people and situations that have repeatedly demonstrated you aren’t their priority. Unfortunately you are going to get exactly what you are looking for. And that’s why I think you are in the situation you are in.

Take care. I wish it had gone differently.

I’m sorry. 😞

Baby.

Just be my obedient fuck toy. Stop overthinking.

Shut the fuck up and submit. Turn your fucking brain off. I’m your Daddy.

Good girl. I’m not doing this again.

I will be the best thing that’s happened to you since your kids if you let me.

Good girl wyd?

Why fight it?

Kids?

lol!!!

I forgot 😆

Hmmm we’ll see how wet you can get yourself without touching

I’m really going to fuck your brains out now when I get my hands on you. I’m saving all this frustration deep in my nuts and going to unload it all on you when I fuck you.

You are going to feel like you got shared around a locker room

Sweet dreams whore. I hope you soak the bed so the see what a filthy bitch you are for me.

Goodnight. 😘

I bet you’re exhausted. Hopefully, you’ll be able to get a nap in today.

How are you?

Everytime you lay down I think about pinning you down by your neck and and rapeing your tight little holes. Your screams will make me harder and cause you more pain.

You will say stop but I know you need it.

I know because you are mine. I study my property. I know what you need better than you do. So you will take what I give you.

I need you to understand what I’m doing to you is consensual brainwashing. I’m taking over you mind body and soul. Eventually you will need me more than air.

Good girl.

If you are an obedient little bitch. I’ll eventually bring you into a group chat with my others subs. You will like them. They love watching me fuck other women. They also love joining.

Hows my pussy?

Are you keeping it wet for Daddy?

Show me later

Mmm it looks so soft.

You had them lasered?

Wow good job.

Oh I see a few tiny ones it looks amazing.

My cum will look so good pulsing out of you and running down against your gorgeous skin.

I’m want to take videos for you to watch. So you can see what I do to you.

To give you a reminder of what a whore you are for Daddy. And all the filthy things he makes you do.

I like it when you learn to anticipate my needs and satisfy them without needing me to ask.

Good night baby girl. You did great today.

You are a natural subby

Looking good cutie 🥰 What does your pin say?

They’re coming through all blurry. I was trying to send it in the higher quality.

I had this one on the back of my phone for several months

Post your schedule and pin it for both of us

What does balanced up mean?

Who your body belong to?

Are you going to let me use and abuse your body however I see fit

Are you going to fuck whoever I tell you to fuck?

Mmm do you want Daddy vet other men and women and make you fuck them?

That’s to be worked out later. I’m not asking you to do it now. Or even to do it. I’m asking if you would like that.

I appreciate you always being honest with me.

Have you ever been to a sex club?

Do you like the thought of being fucked in front of other people? Or the watching?

Good girl.

Proud of you baby girl.

Listen to Pon De Replay on your streaming service https://tidal.com/track/361081839/u

Do you like EDM?

I’m usually hyped up.

I produce some Hip-Hop and EDM

My spaceship.

Yeah. 😆

I had my own servers for a bit. I’m a Twitch streaming associate.

Do you play? I mainly like to troll serious role players by being even more serious

How old is the baby?

just finished at the gym

Cute🥰